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Tinder Vs Grindr
Are we talking about Tinder or Grindr? The similarities between the two dating and/or hookup apps extend beyond the basic swipe left/right model, and the history of the two is somewhat intertwined. The most obvious feature setting the two apart is the target user base. Grindr has been called “gay Tinder,” alluding to the core distinction: gender preference. Although Tinder gives you the option of setting which gender or genders you are seeking, it seems to be discussed and used primarily by the straight community. Grindr, however, is targeted directly to gay, bi and curious men, making it the clear preferred choice for some.
By Swordelia Corningstone9 years ago in Filthy
Why You Should Have Sex Everyday
Like many topics in sexuality, several misconceptions exist. One of the most misunderstood topic is about the frequency of sex you should have. Is it safe everyday or not? Having sex every day, as long as you both are into it, is probably one of the healthiest activities you can do. Turns out there are a number of ailments that can be cured simply by having sex everyday. Not only can having sex everyday help boost your general mood and behavior but it can help you physiologically. Some physiological effects sex can offer are slowing the aging process, boosting your immune system and keeping your heart healthy. Chances are you might not have sex everyday, but after reading this scientifically backed list of why you should have sex everyday you’ll be bugging your partner to hop in sack more on the reg.
By George Gott9 years ago in Filthy
Vintage Sexist Dating Advice
We say ‘vintage sexist dating advice’ because a lot has changed over the last six or seven decades. We don’t experience an overload of advice that objectifies women and presents them as less significant, intelligent or capable than men. In fact, there are very few women who are referred to as ‘house wives’ these days because most women work and earn just as much, if not more than their partners. In many respects, the relationship dynamic in a relationship has changed. There are stay at home dads, who cook, clean and raise the children. There are couples who split a bunch of the daily housework and tend to reject traditional gender roles, whether on purpose on accident. But we can't value where we are if we don't look at where we've been, starting with vintage sexist dating advice.
By Bea Norton9 years ago in Filthy
How Wine Defines Female Sexuality
Her type of wine can determine your pick-up line. The wine a woman drinks might define her personality and offer insight into what makes her tick. Moderate imbibing of wine could increase your lifespan, provide you with protection against certain types of cancer, benefit your heart, and improve your mental condition. It can also lend insight into a woman’s personality. Often, wine defines female sexuality.
By Filthy Staff9 years ago in Filthy
Habits of Couples Who Have a Great Sex Life
There are a number of habits of couples who have a great sex life. Whether you've been together for a year, or 20 years, you have to realize that sex plays an enormous role in holding your relationship together. As much as it may be a little strange (or awkward) to hear, some of the most successful, long-lasting couples still have an active sex life well after their kids have grown up and left the nest. Here are some of the best habits of couples who have great sex lives.
By Lindsie Polhemus10 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions for Smaller Penises
According to a porn star's thoughts on penis size, “It’s not the size of the boat that counts, but the motion of the ocean.” While this may be true, we can’t forget that the proper position during sex holds great importance, as well. Sex positions for smaller penises vary and can be improvised to make it work best for you and your partner. Besides, it’s not all bad to have a smaller penis. And no, I’m not just trying to make you feel better. Men with smaller penises tend to excel in other areas, such as going down town! Men who feel like they can’t perform with their penis will find other ways to get their partner off. No complaints here! And it’s not even the women we are noticing the lack in length. It’s the men who are pointing out their penis perils. For the 45 percent of men who think their penis is too small, 85 percent of women are satisfied with their partner’s penis size.
By Lizzie Boudoir10 years ago in Filthy
Sex Fears We All Have
As Franklin D. Roosevelt once said, "The only thing we have to fear is fear itself," and that goes for sexual fears as well. Throughout life, as humans, we are constantly being bombarded by insecurities that make us feel less than. One of the most dreaded fears a person can experience is when it comes to sex. These sexual fears can make people feel defeated and inadequate. Sexual fears aren't always visible, and you may not even know you have them sometimes. They can take cover deep down inside your subconscious mind and as a result, you might find yourself avoiding sex altogether. You might be a person who has never had sex or has had a lot of sex or somewhere in the middle. If these sexual fears are getting in the way of you having a well balanced sex life then that's a major problem.
By George Gott10 years ago in Filthy
Warning Signs You're in a Toxic Relationship. Top Story - September 2016.
Fall in love, get married, have a couple of kids, live happily ever after. That's the formula, right? Relationships play a huge role in the makeup of our lives and sometimes, we become so caught up in what we're 'supposed' to be doing, that we veer from what we actually want. We start accepting less than we should, because we've become compliant and comfortable. But the warning signs you're in a toxic relationship are there. Right in front of our faces, the signs are there. Sometimes you just need to take a step back and ask yourself "What am I doing? Why am I still in this? Will this make me happy?". If you've started to feel unease in your own relationship, it's probably hurting you more than it's helping you. Be on the look out for these signs while you evaluate what the next step to take is.
By Emily McCay10 years ago in Filthy
How to Orgasm from Anal Sex
Welcome to the world of anal sex! If you're reading this, you're probably one of two types of people. One, you've never tried anal (because HELLO, EXIT NOT ENTRANCE) but you can't help but be curious about it. Or two, you partake in anal sex with your partner, but you can't seem to reach your climax. Fear not my friends, you are not alone! Learning how to orgasm from anal sex is about 70% mental and 30% physical. Master one and the other will follow.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Male Menopause May Be Psychological
Men's sexual aging is far more mysterious than women's. When women look down the sexual road, at least one thing is clear: menopause. They know that if their sexual instincts, responses, and appetites start to go a bit haywire anytime from their late thirties on, there's probably a biochemical explanation. However there's also light at the end of tunnel. Men don’t have that same assurance. If their sexual responses turn less than trustworthy from around 40-years-old on, the possible causes seem endless. Maybe it's the toll of endless job stress, or a latent sexual identity crisis, or some disastrous hormonal disorder. Maybe it's male menopause, if such a thing exists. Like women, men's hormones do fluctuate with age. Despite the testicle's ability to resist aging, a majority of men experience a decrease in testosterone after age forty. Which also begs the question - How do I deal with sexual anxiety?
By David McCleary10 years ago in Filthy
Signs It's Time to Break Up
We have all been there at one time or another, either as the "breaker upper" or the “broken up with”, regardless both positions can be difficult. For some couples, a break up may come from out of nowhere, leaving one of you distraught and confused, or perhaps the breakup will be a mutual agreement and the best decision for both of you. Looking out for warning signs is a good way to predict if you and your lover might be on the outs. You can use these signs as motivation to communicate and work through your issues or as an awakening that will finally push you to move on. Whatever choice you make, remember life is too short to spend it fighting and unhappy and even the worst relationships leave you with something; a new found outlook on life, love and most importantly yourself.
By Jus L'amore10 years ago in Filthy
