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How to Become a Female Porn Star
When I first started making waves in the adult industry, my roommate at the time (a practicing makeup artist by day and suffering waitress by night) asked me if I could help her get some scenes. At first I was genuinely annoyed. I worked for years to get to where I am in this industry and not one person helped me along the way, why should I help anyone else? Oh right, because I have a conscience.
By Samantha Bentley10 years ago in Filthy
How to Choose a Movie to Have Sex To
It’s date night. Whether that means you have shipped the kids off to Grandma’s for the night or you really are still at the dating stage (aww), date night doesn’t have to involve going out. Let’s face it—when the clock comes at a premium and you want uninterrupted sexy time, going out just isn't worth it.
By Ailish Delaney10 years ago in Filthy
Why You Should Talk to Your Lover About Poop
When two people fall in love, it is not uncommon for them to go through a lot of grueling and time consuming tactics to primp and impress their new lover. This is not an unreasonable routine. Everyone wants to feel confident in their appearance, especially when a new love interest comes along. Blemishes are caked with layers of makeup, hairs are shaved and waxed and plucked over and over again, while deodorant and perfume and cologne are used tirelessly to mask the unpleasant odors that come with having a human body.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
How to Date Your Friend's Sister
You’re an older kid—you have that college boy, sweat, and cheap cologne smell. When you went over to your friend's house for a post-soccer-game hangout turned sleepover, she walked to the bathroom across the hall in a gray oversized t-shirt, stopped in the door frame, and smiled that brace-filled grin.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
How to Become a Male Porn Star
Every. Single. Day. At least one guy will tweet me asking, "How do I get into porn?" The short answer is, "You don’t." But for those of you that actually might have the drive, perseverance, and sheer talent to be a male porn star, Imma break it down for you.
By Samantha Bentley10 years ago in Filthy
Why to Match Heels and Lingerie
Think about the last time you watched bondage porn. The silicone-pumped, bare-naked kitty threw open the bathroom door and revealed a long riding crop. A spray tanned, fake-accented male tried to bounce out of the zip ties tying him to a chair. Kitty put her leg on the tub, moving her crotch to the center of the screen. In that moment, what did you notice? Her matching lingerie and high heels? Good. You should notice. It’s one of the most important parts of the scene. Without matching lingerie, garters, hose, and heels, where would your attention be? Probably counting tiles on the floor, or comparing your ceiling trim to the bathroom’s cornice molding. Matching makes the scene, and it should be the central feature in your sexy wardrobe. Without it, you are Sandra from after the ninth-grade dance, wearing a pink bra and orange panties with purple butterflies.
By Lizzie Boudoir10 years ago in Filthy
Orgy Advice for Women
Forewarned is forearmed. At least that's what Tracy Cabot, a well-known writer on sex and relationships believes—especially when it comes to orgies. She has presented us with comprehensive orgy advice directed toward women. Girls like to have a little (or a lot) of fun too! Am I right?!
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Leo Sex Astrology
Constellations fill the night sky, and many believe that these stars impact our personalities and the courses that our lives take. While the scientific validity of astrology is still tenuous, believers closely follow what their signs have to say about their futures. Each astrological sign falls under one of the four elements essential to life: fire, earth, air, and water. Leos, born between July 23 and August 22, are fire signs, and are incredibly passionate. A Leo's sex astrology is largely determined by their extroverted and extremely confident nature.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
How to Have Sex After Kids
It’s been months since the doctor has cleared you for sex, yet you can still count on one hand how many times you’ve actually done it. Your partner wants you, you want your partner, but the baby wants you both—all the time. And when the baby gives you a moment, you are either too tired or too busy to remember how horny you are. It never ends. Babies become toddlers and then, in the blink of an eye, they are kids. Kids are a tremendous deterrent to sex. They are there all the time. A little carpe diem and a lot of planning is what it takes to have sex after a child comes into your life.
By Jus L'amore10 years ago in Filthy
Sounds of Sex
From the mating calls of birds to the impassioned grunts and shrieks of the gorilla in heat, most creatures use sounds to communicate lust and the various stages of sexual pleasure. For some, the making of appropriate sounds is the only way to arouse a desired mate. Man is the only creature who has hang-ups about freely expressing sounds of sex, which range from moans, whimpers, yells, to more explicit language.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Morning Sex Benefits
Sex is the essence which keeps every species alive. However, the physical and emotional pleasure we derive from it makes it good for much more than procreation. Luckily, these pleasures come hand in hand with health benefits. When was the last time you and your partner indulged in a sexual encounter at the break of the dawn? If you haven’t lately, the benefits of morning sex will surely motivate you to set the alarm a little early once in a while. Sex in general has many physical and physiological benefits, and morning sex adds a whole new dimension to the impact on your physical and mental health.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Best Mattresses for Sex
Have you ever wondered why you perform better sexually in one bed than another? If you are on fire in one, but a damp squid in another, the problem may well be the mattress. Yes, we know that they say a bad workman always blames his tools, but in the case of mattresses and sex, it’s definitely true. As innocuous as it looks, that squidgy rectangle of love-making heaven could make all the difference between hitting the dizzy heights of ecstasy, or the miserable depths of bedroom hell.
By Ailish Delaney10 years ago in Filthy
