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Mistakes Men Make in Bed
Sex, love, and men are the major subjects of modern girl talk, but that doesn’t mean she’s singing your praises left and right. When girls get together to talk about such topics, much of what they say is negative. Women go to their friends with tales of the mistakes men make in bed in hopes of finding advice on how to prevent these mistakes in the future. More often than not, they find friends that can relate, but no solution to their problem. We have interviewed women from all walks of life and gathered their accounts of the most common mistakes men make in bed. So if you want your partner to be the only one amongst her friends who has nothing to say except, "He’s fantastic in bed," read carefully and be the man who’s willing to put in effort to make that difference.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Art of Erotic Massage
The manager of a massage parlor called a number left with his answering service in response to an ad for masseuses he had placed in several college and underground newspapers. His call was greeted by a mature and enthusiastic voice: "Hello!"—it was a recording—"This is Tracy McNeal, the girl you've been looking for! And I have a new toy, it's a telephone recorder. Won't you help me play with my new toy? It's easy, all you have to do is leave your message, name, and number after you hear the beep, and we'll be speaking soon! Bye!"
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Long Distance Relationship Sex Advice
You have been in a relationship for quite some time and everything is going wonderfully. And then one day, the job she's been dreaming of comes along. She has the opportunity to work abroad for an entire year and she will be back in a blink, she says. You are excited for her, but how are you going to keep your relationship afloat?
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Vintage Sex Advice Books. Created with: OG Collection.
Sex advice is a combination of art and science. It has not evolved much over the decades, unless you count learning how to use Tinder, or simple guidance like "don’t trust Ashley Madison." The most valuable advice comes from a vast library of source material that may not get you laid by swipe, but will certainly prove useful in solving legitimate relationship issues and in one on one dating. Vintage sex advice books provide a window to the views of authentic sex advice gurus.
By OG Collection 10 years ago in Filthy
Why to Use Natural Condoms
With virtually all men using condoms these days, there remain a lot of unanswered questions: Which type provides the safest protection against disease? Which allows the most feeling? How do you put it on without losing spontaneity? The condom has come into its own as a contraceptive. Men and women alike—the smart ones at least—are beginning to think of the rubber as a friend, not a nuisance.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Could You Be a Sex Surrogate?
"It's an open secret," one Los Angeles psychiatrist told me more than a year ago, "but lots of us are using sex surrogates now. For some clients, we've tried everything, and this is the only thing that works. It's a very powerful therapeutic adjunct." A colleague put it in homelier terms: "After all, you don't learn how to play tennis by talking about it."
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Is Erectile Dysfunction All in Your Head?
There are probably more myths and misconceptions responsible for the madness surrounding the words "impotence" or "erectile dysfunction" than for any other malady affecting mankind. No doubt because it has to do with that very sensitive subject so dear to man—sex. And although experts, since the first bite of the apple, have labored mightily to lift the curtain of ignorance, man has, for the most part, ignored their efforts and continued to tremble at the mere mention of the word.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
How to Hide Sex Toys from Your Kids
Having sex when you have kids around is always a challenge. As those kids get older, the challenges become even bigger. When they are old enough to start having their own sex lives, then you are in real trouble. Not only do you have a whole new set of issues to worry about, but you are always fearful that they might start asking you about sex toys or ask about what sex toys you own or recommend. It makes the "where do babies come from" question seem easy. Now if you choose to have a sex swing hanging from the middle of your boudoir, that is totally your call, but there is no hiding that.
By Bea Norton10 years ago in Filthy
Can Consensual Adultery Lengthen Your Life?
Dr. Lenore R. Zohman, a cardiologist of New York's Montefiore Hospital, reported that a majority of men who die during intercourse do so while engaging in extramarital sex. Sounds a lot like downright bad luck. Imagine your spouse finding you dead and naked while on top of someone else. At least fate got to you before your wife did. Or perhaps the victims didn't know that adultery can be fatal if it is combined with fear, anxiety or guilt. Or with heavy drinking. As a physician, I many coronary patients who enjoy adultery and whose condition has actually improved because they engage in consensual adultery.
By Dr. Eugene Scheimann10 years ago in Filthy
When She Should Say No
Many women have a hard time saying no. Perhaps the difficulty lies not, as some archaic scientists once believed, in the fact that women have difficulty saying no to men due to their alpha presence. It is possible that the real problem for women is not saying yes or no, but asking the philistine male to repeat his question in a more coherent and desirable way. There are some that argue that women are people pleasers, and therefore have a tough time saying no in almost all situations, irrespective of which gender is asking the question. There is obviously a time for yes and a time for no. If a stranger invites you into his car on a corner, it would seem obvious that the answer should be no. If your favorite actor in a sitcom pulls up to you on that same corner to ask you out to lunch, it may not be so clear whether the answer is yes or no. For beautiful women, models, and actresses, the questions are often more ambiguous, and require more forethought before answering.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
